Author: Hristina Harpist

  • Top Tips for a Romantic Marriage Proposal

    Planning to pop the question? Get on one knee? Propose to the love of your life? There are so many ways to ask one of the most important questions in your relationship – Will you marry me?

    But where do you start, there are so many things to consider and so many different articles, how to guides, “rules” and everything else out there to consider. 

    Well it doesn’t have to be difficult at all and here are some of the basics to cover to make the proposal all about you and your loved one. 

    This quick guide helps you create a list of things to consider for your proposal

    1. Picking the right ring for your proposal – do you want to use a custom made ring, something temporary, a promise ring or maybe a different kind of token for your love. 
    2. Choosing the location – the location sets the tone for the proposal and should hold a sentimental, romantic meaning to you. 
    3. Timing the proposal will help you create an unforgettable memory for both you and your partner 
    4. Plan your words – choosing what to say carefully before the big day, writing out drafts and putting the right words together to create a personal message for your partner will make the moment one to cherish forever

    Now, let’s dive deep into how you can bring it all together and create the most romantic proposal. 

    Location

    Choosing the right location to pop the question is one of the main steps when starting the planning process. It’s important to choose a location that holds meaning for you and your partner, it could be the place you first met, a dream destination, the place you went on a first date or any other place that holds meaning to you and your partner. Visiting the location beforehand can help you imagine the best way to propose and plan the timing around your proposal. Consider your partners preferences and if they would prefer a private or a public proposal. 

    Story

    Adding a personal element to the proposal will make it unique, romantic and even more intimate. 

    Printing our pictures together, writing love letters, playing a favourite song, incorporating favourite memories and cherished moments in the decoration and atmosphere to the decor will make the proposal one of a kind. 

    Getting in touch with and involving family, friends or even your pet in the proposal can make it one of a kind and the key is to make it resemble your relationship. 

    Shh...

    Keeping the proposal a secret is key to it being a success and to have the element of surprise that makes it unique. Don’t involve too many people in the planning and avoid leaving any leads out there for your partner to find.

    Final tips and tricks to a picture-perfect proposal.


    Hiring professionals to help you with the decoration, photography and videography of your proposal can help you keep the proposal as secret as possible (lower chance of spoiling the surprise), and hiring the right musician to perform your favourite songs and to set the right atmosphere for you can make the proposal even more special – and what better way to set the romantic tone of your proposal and help you ask the question than the soothing sounds of the harp.

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    Add the magical touch of the harp to your proposal. There is no better way to add your favourite song, the one that tells the story of your relationship, to your big day!

  • Tuning up for the Classroom

    Back to School Series

    How can musical training enhance language skills, vocabulary and empathy skills in pupils? 📚🎶

    AI generated image of a harp teacher with a pupil playing the harp

    Introduction

    As the school year approaches, there is no better time to look into how music and musical training improve behaviour, empathy, language, vocabulary and analytical thinking and how it’s linked to overall academic performance in children and young adults.

    Multiple studies suggest that the correlations between being musically trained and learning a musical instrument, participating in a choir, or an ensemble improve brain development (particularly in the prefrontal cortex) and are directly linked to supporting memory, cognitive behaviour, linguistic skills and emotional control. *

    I have taken the time to deep dive into the extensive research that is available and summarise how musical training can be beneficial in early childhood development and how directly links to academic success.

    AI created an Illustrative image of a music teacher in a classroom, surrounded by children during a lesson.

    Let’s Dive Into it

    1. Music and Emotional Intelligence

    There is always that one song that brings an emotion to us. Be it a song that our parents sang to us at bedtime, or the song we chose for our first dance. Music brings emotions to life. With that said, it is not a surprise that children who are musically trained show traits in emotional maturity and reading emotions in others.

    Studies suggest that when children participate in group music lessons, workshops, music ensembles, orchestras and choirs, they need to pay close attention to the emotional state of each performer so that they can perform better. Research on how children perform during and after those classes shows that those activities help kids develop emotional intelligence and empathy, both skills needed to achieve good results in academic settings. *

    2. Linguistics and Language Skills


    Music requires a lot of listening. By receiving musical training, a child uses more than one of their senses and listening is one that is highly involved. Following simple echo games (repeating a simple melody pattern, clapping out a rhythm) or by listening to a piece of music and trying to distinguish patterns in the melody, we use the same parts of the auditory system as we do in speech. 
    With that said, musical training has been shown to improve an individual’s ability to expand on vocabulary, learn a new language and improve understanding of phonetics for pronouncing new words. Those same mechanisms also help children develop verbal fluency, memory and reading abilities. 


    Learning to play a musical instrument involves managing multiple tasks at the same time. It has a large attention and memory demand and coordination demand. Learning a piece of music requires the ability to read a new music text and execute it either by singing it out or playing it on a musical instrument.
    Those skills are later easily transferable to other academic tasks, and research suggests higher academic performance in pupils who are musically trained in comparison to children who do not undertake any musical training. In children, musical training can be seen as additional schooling that demands focused attention, memory and progressive technical skill. Those skills can develop self-control, analytical thinking and focused attention, which have been shown to increase academic success. 

    Conclusion

    As we’ve reached the end of the first part of the “Tuning the Classroom” series, we can confidently say that there are clear links between musical training and how it helps pupils develop essential skills and achieve higher academic results.

    Music is a tool that helps us express emotion, listen for differences, improve our memory and attention spam and increase our ability to focus on tasks.

    Musical training, also supports organisational skills, time management, and self-discipline which are needed to show progress when learning a musical instrument.

    All of the above are skills that can easily be transferred to other academic studies and help pupils yield high results.


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    References

    • Habibi, Assal, Beatriz Ilari, Kevin Crimi, Michael Metke, Jonas T. Kaplan, Anand A. Joshi, Richard M. Leahy et al. “An equal start: absence of group differences in cognitive, social, and neural measures prior to music or sports training in children.” Frontiers in Human Neuroscience 8 (2014): 690.
    • Diamond A (2002) Normal Development of Prefrontal Cortex from Birth to Young Adulthood: Cognitive functions, anatomy, and biochemistry. New York, NY: Oxford University Press. 466–503.
    • Paus T (2001) Primate anterior cingulate cortex: Where motor control, drive and cognition interface. Nat Rev Neurosci 2: 417–424.
    • Best, J.R., Miller, P.H. and Jones, L.L., 2009. Executive functions after age 5: Changes and correlates. Developmental review, 29(3), pp.180-200.
    • Miendlarzewska EA, Trost WJ. How musical training affects cognitive development: rhythm, reward and other modulating variables. Front Neurosci. 2014 Jan 20;7:279. doi: 10.3389/fnins.2013.00279. PMID: 24672420; PMCID: PMC3957486.
  • Festive Season around the Harp ✨

    With Christmas approaching, I am already feeling the Festive Spirit. 🎅🏻

    What better way to do that than to listen and play our favourite Christmas tunes on the harp! Tune in and enjoy the Christmas classic. There is no better way to relax than with the harp and a cup of cocoa! 🎄

    Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

    Which Christmas song always gets you in the festive spirit? Let me know in the comments!